Those who attended the morning church service at Reverend Chris Okotie‘s Household of God
on Sunday, June 24, 2012, were more than surprised when the popular
‘Man of God’ announced his impending divorce from his wife of four years
Stephanie Henshaw.
Okotie cited ‘irreconcilable
differences’ as the reason for the surprise separation and asked the
public to respect his wishes by not asking questions. But wouldn’t it be
a shame if we didn’t?
As soon as the news hit the stands,
comments began pouring in on websites, blogs and social networks. The
large number of people rebuking the pop singer turned pastor turned
politician for walking away from his second marriage is however balanced
with others who have found a reason or two to support his action.
’If that is true then he is not fit
to be a pastor because the qualification for that position is that he
should be able to manage his home. It is obvious that he cannot manage
his home well hence twice divorced‘ Prince Kingsley commented on our website
‘It’s funny and also unbelievable. I
personally do not want to judge. But I am explictly saying that he is
not a man of God. He knows no word of God. He has no idear on God’s view
of marriage. As far as I’m concerned, his career has crashed as his
marriage crashes for the second time‘, Zion also commented.
Others however see the divorce from another angle:
‘Well, I want to think that those
people who posted messages condemning Rev Chris Okotie are either not
married or married but people with retired sense of reasoning. It’s
always a quick one to make condemning conclusions, just pray life
doesn’t bring you to that point, because people like Rev Chris Okotie
may just be an occasion for you to think and pray. Check the man’s
record and you agree he has been a man who has always wanted to do the
right thing, he is a true man of God whether his marriage ends or not.
Marriages are only contracted; successful, terminated only here on
earth. So please be wise loose tongues‘ said Pope, a reader, in support of Okotie
Meanwhile, a number of comments have
been directed to Stephanie, who with this recent development, is coming
out of her third marriage.
‘The scripture tells us to cut off
any part of us that may hinder us to make heaven, May be Stephanie is
that bad part for Okotie to cut off. But let me ask, why did Rev. Okotie
go for a divorcee who has children for other husbands?‘ Edet said
’The man just likes to change
women, and as for the lady, I don’t see what an African woman that’s
been married twice with 3 kids is looking for in a 3rd marriage. She
should take her joy in her children & see how happy she will be. I
know a lot of women who come out of bad marriages and live for their
kids, my mum being one of them‘ Tosin added as well.
While most people have taken sides,
giving their theories as to why Okotie called for a divorce, others have
remained neutral, throwing jokes by the side.
’Okotie knows what it takes to be consistent; failing in politics and marriage, twice‘, Chika commented via Twitter
‘Pastor Chris Okotie one confused but talented man…who probably doesn’t know what he’s actually good at‘, Edafe James also tweeted.
The big question is; will Okotie be taking a new wife anytime soon?
It’s the second time Okotie is ending a
marriage. His first marriage to Tina, ended in 2001, after 15 years. And
he’s not new to ending relationships either – his list of women will
make even 2face Idibia jealous.
Charming and in love with the good life,
the singer-turned-pastor and bonafide ladies’ man will definitely not
have any difficulties, should he decide to date, or settle down again
anytime soon…
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